Bizarre Magazine Issue 111 June 2006 Page 74 One of the people they go to is Glasgow based dominatrix Mistress Lilith. "I receive lots of emails from men asking to treat them as if they're prisoners in my experiment camp," she says. "Most clients are very specific in hat they want and send me scripts and scenarios for the role-play - the majority is interrogation with torture. I used to have one man in particular who flew over from Germany to see me a couple of times for Nazi domination. He wanted severe medical torture while I as dressed in my uniform. " I have another client who's the oldest man I've ever dominated. He' in his 80's and he's Jewish. I have great sessions with him - he likes the uniform I wear, and my job is to extract information from him in my torture chamber. He doesn't talk to me much afterwards, but I assume that for him re-enacting traumatic experiences allows him to gain control somehow." Bizarre Magazine Issue101 August 2005 Page 96 The first thing that strikes you when you step inside Mistress Liliths Dungeon in the corner of an industrial estate in Glasgow is the razor wire covering the ceiling. The second thing is the screams of grown men echoing around the building. The third could well be a riding crop beating your genitals. And you never know, it could be a vampire, a zombie or an SS Officer doing the beating... If the world of domination and submission is a complete mystery to you, here is a quick rundown of some things you really should know: 1) Some people like to be dominant in a relationship - this type of person is known as a "dom". 2) Some people like to be submissive in a relationship - this type of person is known as a "sub". 3) A dom needs a sub to dominate. 4) A sub needs a dom to be submissive to. 5) when a like minded dom and sub meet, they re able to create a symbolic relationship in which they are free to indulge their particular sexual preferences until the cows come home. Or at least that is the idealized unconventional-yet-acceptable-suburban-bliss version of the sub and dom life. But it is rarely that simple. The reasons for these difficulties are many varied. It can be because a sub has such an ever so specific domination necessity that makes their finding the other half of there fetish jigsaw about as likely as Abu Hamaza winning a speed-texting competition. It can also be that, for some reason, people are embarrassed to ask a partner to dress up as a nazi and insert a deep heat covered catheter into there urethra. Or it could even be because people are unaware of social etiquette conventions regarding anal speculum usage. (First date? Third date? Do you know?) And sometimes , just sometimes, asking a woman to puke blood on your gagged and bound, prostrate body just doesn't come out right and ends up sounding kind of sleazy. So what is the unattached sub to do? Submission isn't a solitary pursuit. Without a suitable dom, a sub is lonesome and forlorn like Siegfried without Roy. Fred without Wilma. John without Yoko. Or like a china shop without a bull. But all is not lost. Thankfully, that hole in their life is the exact same dimensions as a dominatrix. And in this consumer age, your local dominatrix will cater for your desires, whatever they may be. Indeed, being flexible ia an essential part of being a good dominatrix, according to Mistress Lilith. You need to be accommodating and you shouldn't mock people for their unconventional desires. And she would know. Alongside all the services you could normally expect from a dominatrix, for the last two-and-a-half-years Lilith has been offering increasingly unusual domination scenarios. "At first we weren't as hardcore as we are now. We offered medical, corporal punishment, enforced feminisation, and I've built on that," she says, sounding remarkably unlike someone someone who is about to pretend to execute a client within the hour. " the more services you offer the more satisfied clients your going to get," she explains. And in case you were wondering what kind of warped mind comes up with this creepy shit, the answer is the men themselves. "People just ring up and and enquire about our services. They will say something like, "Don't think I am strange but do you know anyone who might be able to help me out..." and we do our best to accommodate them." says Lilith. And so one day, when a man asked if Lilith would dress up as a nazi, she agreed. " I asked him why," she says, "and he went into detail about hat he wanted and he added that he was willing to pay a lot of money. I said it as fine and that I would get the uniform. The majority of SS sessions I do are SS medical sessions. It is torture but in a medical environment. It depends on the client. I didn't expect it to take off but I have quite few ho want me to be a Nazi now." "One of my favorite clients-he pays my mortgage every month-flies in every month from London for an SS Nazi session because he is absolutely fascinated with the documentaries. He is very high powered, so his kick is to be dehumanized. In his mind that is the most terrific torture he has ever seen on television, therefore he places himself in the same situation." "The clients are usually very specific in these sessions as they run through actual methods they have seen in the documentaries on the concentration camp medical atrocities, but with the comfort of knowing they are in a controlled, safe environment. Sometimes that fantasy can go as far as a mock execution. Buy, as yet, no-one has asked for a Abu Musab al-Zarqawi. "As far as executions go it's usually not a specific person they ask you to role-play, it's usually certain acts" For example? "I get a lot of requests for hanging. Our suspension unit has a special body harness you can put on the submissive then I prepare them fo the hanging. Which means rubber gloves on. Butt plug inside them so hen they "die" all there fluids don't get released and hit the floor. Catheterize them. catheter bags waiting. get them on the stool. Get the noose around there neck. Obviously the noose is looser than the suspension harness so when I kick the stool away they are not going to get chocked. " Which Is all well and good, but not all Liliths clients want to be dominated by real life monsters. Some of them prefer blood suckers or the undead to be there masters. for them, Lilith provided vampire and zombie sessions. Something that can take a long time to prepare. To become a zombie you need fake skin that can be peeled off. Hair that can be removed fistfuls at a time. You basically need tom make yourself look like death warmed up." "I normally paint one of the girls with red latex and then apply corpse-like body paint and loose hair extensions. I buy human hair off the internet and dye it the same colour of the mistress. I stick it on so it looks like part of their natural hair but can be ripped out pretty easily with no pain or anything," says Lilith. "It's not as silly as it sounds. The session is suited for clients that have a fascination with death and feel the ultimate control would be to be dominated by something as lifeless and weak, yet visually empowering as death itself," explains Lilith, like she is reading from a brochure entitled Weird Domination Services 2005. "The client is bound and forced to witness the woman pull out her hair and tear off her skin while torturing him. It can be quite fascinating and terrifying. It makes them think, "If she can do that to herself, what'll she do to me?" If that level of craziness and self-destruction is too scary for you, you could opt for a vampire session. "The vampire sessions are mostly visual role-play" explains Lilith. "But they do entail blood-play." Such as? "Such as, I love filling a goblet up with water then leaving my bloody tampon in the water to make a gorgeous drink for the sub." But even those who don't relish the idea of real blood-play are catered for. Some people like to mix their fetishes up. A popular combination is a blend of vampire play and emetophilia. [They like the thought of a vampire puking on them]. "We have a special blood that is imported from Germany. You can drink it and throw it up if you want to. It's non-toxic and non-staining. And you can put it in any orifice you want," explains Lilith. Although it is undoubtedly popular, a man not called Andy has just spent half an hour on the floor of a dungeon with a "vampire" puking on his cock. Sitting in the medical room with blood running down his chest from his pierced nipples he puts it down to a childhood event. "I remember losing a fight to a girl when I was really young. She kicked me in the balls and it gave me an erection," he explains. And why the vampire and the blood? "I just fancied trying it". "Some people will either talk to get things off their chest or to explain but some others close up and claim it is personal reasons. And some people aren't sure why they like things," says Lilith. And a man who's name isn't Derek who has spent the last hour naked with weights hanging off his bollocks doesn't seem to know either. During his session his cock was covered in deep heat and beaten with a riding crop. He wasn't allowed to complain either. Quite the opposite in fact. Every time his cock was beaten he had to say, "thank you, mistress" to his, albeit permitted abuser. He just likes it. "Remember," he says, "If you cant bet them.... they'll never make a good sub." November 11th 2003 Uk Mistresses site Writing a review of a Mistress is something quite rare for me these days. Of late I have been bitterly disappointed by so called Pro Dommes whose sessions are highly predictable and of little invention. This is especially true of a large percentage of London based Mistresses. I have always had a fetish for slim blondes, perhaps understandable as I try to re-enact the fascination I had for one teacher at school who kindled my enthusiasm in SM. A couple of weeks back I paid my first visit to Glasgow's Premier Dungeon, my expectations were fairly low given recent encounters. After being given a coffee by an attractive young girl, she told me my session was with Mistress Lilith. My heart sank even further. I had seen pictures of her on the WEB and thought to myself -what possible attraction could there be for me with a young, well built, back haired girl complete with nose rings and tattoos. But what the heck I thought I would give it a try. I was shown into the dungeon by the young receptionist. It is certainly large and very well equipped (unlike some pathetic little rooms others call a dungeon). A couple of minutes later and Mistress Lilith entered the room to obtain my consultation profile. Instantly I knew I was going to enjoy myself, for me at least there was that sudden chemistry. Although business like there was something very warm about her, perhaps those big appealing eyes help. I really must give up forming opinions of how people look from Websites; this young lady is very attractive, sensual and very femininely built. The session started with her teaching me some obedience lessons before I was ordered to worship her high heeled bright red shoes. As per my instructions she wielded a tawse across my hands which really did bite. More obedience lessons and a face slapping prior to being caned and paddled. I asked her to use a Lochgelly I had brought along and she willingly applied it to me hands. There were times, just by speaking to me that she reduced me to a shivering wreck. Normally I like to keep control in a session but at times I relinquished this control over to her. Finally, at her own invention, she used me as a foot stool, where I could worship her size 8 black stocking feet. I tend not to visit the same Mistress twice in succession but I am making an exception in this case and have another one booked for next week - I am already counting down the hours. The only downsides were that the dungeon and Mistress Lilith are in great demand and I did not get any time to chat with her before I left, pity as this is something I used to enjoy with Mistress R (Edinburgh). Although I normally can withstand considerably painful strappings and canings I seemed ill-prepared on this occasion, this could have been due to her being younger. I hope I can correct this when we next meet. I hope you treat this lady with care. bob-tailz